Bipolar disorder symptoms generally start in the 20's, though studies are now showing signs in children and teens. Both men and women are equally likely to develop this disease, though men are less likely to seek help and treatment, if they do they are less likely to stick with the treatment program, often going on and off, which can increase the intensity and frequency of mood swings.
Signs and symptoms common to individuals in a manic phase of bipolar are:
- Overly Excitable
- Careless Spending
- Careless Sex / Increased sex drive
- Excessive use of alcohol or drugs
- Feeling of being on top of the world
- Lack of Sleep - needing much less than is normal
- Emotional Detachment and lack of consideration for other
- Lack of control/ concentration
Periods of mania can last for days, weeks and in some cases for months at a time. In some individuals they have rapid cycling episodes of mania and depression. This means that they experience at least four, maybe even more episodes of mania within a year (12 months).
The depression phase of bipolar, in many ways mimics that of the manic phase, though the signs and symptoms are different.
- Excessive sleeping or insomnia
- Irritability/ intense anger/ worry
- Loss of concern with self and others
- Loss of interest in activities
- Lack of sex drive
- Feelings of loathing and self-hate
- Loss of pleasure
- Increased anxiety
- Loss of appetite
A diagnosis of bipolar disorder can feel like a life sentence for both the individual and their loved ones, but it doesn't have to be. With treatment, knowledge and patience an individual can overcome cycling mood swings and lead a productive life. Though statistically 2 out of 3 marriages end in divorce with a diagnosis of bipolar, it doesn't have to happen. The spouse of an individual with bipolar needs to be strong, stable and knowledgeable of the disease and they can help bring the marriage and relationship to a stable medium.
Though the road may never be totally smooth and the path may always have bumps both the individual and the family can have a positive and productive relationship.
***The information provided above is meant to inform, not diagnosis. If you have questions as the whether you may have bipolar, seek the advice a medical professional, they are qualified to treat and diagnose. ****